f!Ve yEaRs ;¤

So, my Cuddlie & I are celebrating our 5th year anniversary on april 12, 2005.... geesh.... it's been so long yet time flies too fast, that a lot of things happened! We never knew we'll come this way long knowing that it was both our first time to enter a relationship.... "immature" they say at first... some people never believed that we can juggle our time between studies, our family, and our relationship. Of course, it was not easy at first... too much adjustments, acceptance, understanding... and a whole buncha' recipe to have a healthy relationship. I'm very lucky... asking me why? Because having someone so loyal to you and always makes you feel that you're special is not always a scenario for other relationships right?! I guess its in a case to case basis... but I'm still very lucky. Give and take can be the word, but don't expect to have something in return.... rough road, steep hills, stormy nights... in all these bad weathers in a relationship, it is very important that you both walk together and face the fact that not all relationships have smooth road to take.... as it says "it takes two to tango"... "Trust" your partner... love him for what and who he is.... make him feel that he is needed because you love him. Being together everyday is not an excuse for the word "magkasawaan"... nah! It's not that.... its just a preparation for your life together.... I can still remember during our first week together... we decided not to tell our parents about our relationship. It's not that we are not ready to face the consequences and our responsibilities, but since it was our first.... we don't want our parents to think that once we failed (maybe on our studies or the like), this relationship is not the reason! Good thing we both graduated with flying colors (not too high to fly, hehehe!) proving to them that we can make it together. Having accomplishments together makes the bonding closer and stronger. It's not on how long you've been together, but it's on how strong you've been and how much you showed your love to each other despite of everything... including our shortcomings.... Im happy coz a lot of people are happy for both of us... that growing together emotionally, physically, mentally.... and sharing a life to each other has been almost perfect.... I know that we still have a lot of years to share together.... I'm sure of that! Maybe you'll ask me why... it is because having God in the center of our life and relationship that strengthens our faith together is not a usual "ingredient" in all relationships nowadays.... We are happy... yes we really are! We also enjoy each others company..... maybe for others it's not that easy to understand... insisting the reason that we must give space to each other, explore ourselves more, find other people and enjoy their company...... NAH! no time for that! We are building a strong foundation together.... we must TRUST each other.... be open.... be honest.... be as understanding and patient as you can be.... I may not be in a perfect relationship.... but I am really happy and greatful to have a Niño Ronald Dalusung Pacheco in my life... no one can replace him.... NO ONE EVER! I LOVE YOU CUDDLIE ;¤ i wuv oo ;¤ mmmmmmmmmmmmwah ;¤ Happy 5th Year Anniversary! mwah ;¤